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So sorry to hear about your friend. She would be proud of you today and see
how well your doing for yourself.
Condolences ma, your awesome for sharing that message, we love you! And
take heed, tomorrow is not promised so tell peeps you love them today!
I’m so sorry for your loss Amber. I’m really glad you’ve come to the place
where you know you couldn’t have changed things. Everybody has their time
to go, but when a death is unexpected it doesn’t feel like it should have
been their time. But it’s out of our control and we just have to trust that
things will be ok.
Thank you for sharing such a personal and heat felt story and hope your
post helps others….
Damn You Reminded Me Of My BestFriend He Pass Away R.I.P
This is the definition of strength…. the fact that you are even sharing
this with us is just unbelievable. U have my upmost respect and also my
Hey, hello +Amber sCloset I dealt with something like this in my last year
of high school as well. We use to do dumb shit like steal cars. Even thou I
was never the one to steal them just ride in them. However, the last time
we got locked up, he (my friend) tried to call me, but due to my mom was
strict I could not accept the collect call. So he died hanging with the
wrong people due to, I could not get in contact with him by accepting a
collect call due to my mom. He died during a robbery; he was the getaway
driver or something to this day I blame myself; I should have ignored my
mother & accepted that phone call; he would have been alive today. He was
only 16 at the time he died. Thank you so much for sharing this.
So sorry for your loss, Amber. Did they ever catch the person who hit her,
and if so, what happened to them?
Cousin I just wanted to hug you that whole video. I remember that day and I
remember the beautiful strength her mom had at your graduation she has a
beautiful friend in you and she knows how much you love her. Her spirit is
with you every day. You are such an amazing person. I love you
I LOVE how vulnerable and open you are in this video Amber, we don’t have
many YTers who are opaque anymore. I appreciate you sharing and I’m sorry
for your loss…
This was extremely brave of you
Thanks for being strong and opening up to us so we can hear your story..
everyone is not perfect. . ..
Dear sweet Amber. Thank you so much for doing this video and for
remembering my daughter Sharmelia. I want you to know what a blessing you
are and how thankful I & my family are to know that Sharmelia had amazing
friends in her life such as you, Ashton, Corey and the rest of the gang.
You all helped her to realize, during those precious years, how awesome we
all knew she was! And for that I am forever grateful. Had it not been for
your friendships, she couldn’t have made it at CBHS! Please rid yourself of
the guilt and belief that you could’ve done something to save my baby!! We
all have an appointment with death. And as tragic as the events of December
2, 2003 were, it happened in God’s timing. I lived with guilt for years
after she was killed about what I could’ve done to make her life better. We
struggled, as I was a single parent for years and that always haunted me.
But the beauty of it all was the impact that her death has had on thousands
of teens across the country. She inspired me to become a better woman, I’ve
spoken at high schools every since in honor of her. And kids who never knew
her have become adults with an awareness of the dangers of drinking &
driving because of what happened. Listen to me Amber (tear), you made an
impact on Sharmelia just by being the awesome friend that you were!! I
could never forget what you and the rest of the gang gave her……REAL
LOVE & TRUE FRIENDSHIP. I witnessed it every time you all were around one
another and whenever she spoke of you, your sister, Corey, Christine, etc.
we knew who her friends were 😉 and that’s what’s up! As far as her coming
out about liking girls, I didn’t know until after she was killed but I’m am
so glad she had you to share that with. It wouldn’t have mattered to me one
bit what her preference was because she was amazing! I always suspected, by
the way but she kept that from me. Just so you know, I’m proud of you for
coming out & sharing your life with thousands…..you really are awesome!!
I’m sure Sharmy is looking down from Heaven smiling right now saying,
“Right on Amber!” I love you dearly and keep doing what you’re
doing….changing lives one video at a time 😉 Dee Sova ( Sharmelia…..We
shall never forget you)
God bless you Amber!
We love you too. :~*
Hey I’m a new subscriber! Love all your videos. You are so amazing <3 I'm
so so sorry for your loss love. Stay strong.
Sorry for your loss.there was nothing you could have done, except to make
sure the drunk driver got what is due him..and justice for your friend…
thank God for your friend and that you are alive..it could have been you.
Something told me I needed to come check you out. Hugs babycakes *muah*
So sorry for your loss… :,( I feel for you so much Amber because I go
through the same feelings when it comes to my grandmother’s passing . I
dropped a few tears watching this because everything that happened was so
sad . Just continue to stay strong, we’re all here for you ♥♥♥ loveee
I am SO sorry to hear this Amber. Losing someone is the hardest situation
to deal with. Don’t feel guilty for what happened, you could’ve prevented
that from happening.
Stay strong. <3
I am so sorry to hear about your best friend. That is too much to deal with
at any age, let alone a teenager. It absolutely was not your fault. You
don’t control life and death. Try to let the guilt go.
Sending you love, hugs, and happy thoughts. You are in my prayers. I went
through a similar situation which has left me with a lot of guilt but, as
you said, it’s not healthy. What happened to your best friend was not your
fault in any way and I hope you can find peace in the fact that she did
know how much you love her and that you were such a great friend to her.
You will meet again some day but in the mean time, try this: I was told as
a kid that when someone we love passes away and becomes an angel, they come
to visit during the day disguised as butterflies. Every time I’ve lost
someone I’ve seen a butterfly the day of their passing as well as at the
funeral services. I truly believe butterflies are our angels waving
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